Intimacy
Intimacy
Intimacy is the key ingredient for passion and chemistry, without it the date becomes bland and disenchanting. Essentially, the primary underlying goal of the date is to build this level of intimacy and familiarity so that the relationship can progress.
The level of intimacy is dependent on the level of comfort and chemistry between you two. Recognizing a few of the etiquette when it comes to intimacy can dramatically expedite the process of building it up.
Essential Etiquette
Men: Never ever force intimacy. Not only does it make the other person uncomfortable it will most likely destroy the relationship. Intimacy comes with trust and time.
Men: Getting a woman drunk or drugged to induce intimacy is inappropriate and will not foster trust or true intimacy.
BBW: In general, let the man lead the intimacy ritual however you should also recognize when the man needs a push to make a move.
Tips
- Men: Recognize the signals when it comes to building intimacy. BBW will often give the ‘green’ light to go ahead with making a move so be wary of these signals. You can also test the waters by making some moves and testing her reaction. If she is clearly uncomfortable give her some space and try again only when she feels more comfortable with you.
- If you want to build intimacy quicker find places that are romantically conducive. Places that are quiet, secluded and comfortable are ideal however you must create trust before you progress to these places.